Lack of sexual intimacy is one of the most common problems in marriages today. Many couples find that they no longer have sex with their spouse as often as they would like, but feel powerless to fix it. The longer the marital dry spell continues, the more insurmountable the problem can feel, until it can become a potentially catastrophic problem in the marriage. Here are some tips on how to fix a sexless marriage, before it is too late and someone does something that you both will regret. An estimated 18% of the married population suffers the problem of reduced sexual intimacy at some point or another, so never feel that you and your spouse are alone in this.

Pop quiz: What is the most important sex organ on a woman? Do you know? How about on a man? OK, here’s another one, what is the largest sex organ? If these sound like trick questions to you, then chances are that you don’t know as much about sex as you think. For a woman, the most important area to stimulate is the brain.  The largest sex organ is the skin. When it comes to pleasuring our mates, even couples that have been married for decades can be a little clueless. While it may seem harmless, not knowing how best to arouse and pleasure your mate can actually be a slippery slope that degrades your sex life. If you want to improve your sex life, one of the best things that you can do is to learn your mate’s erogenous zones.

When you and your spouse make love, is it always the same way? Are you always on top? Are you strictly a missionary position couple? Have you ever experimented with different positions? Or do you think that trying different positions is something best left to the professionals in adult movies? Are you afraid that your partner will think that you are kinky or perverted if you suggest trying something a bit more acrobatic? The truth is that trying different sexual positions is a great way to spice up your love life and improve your marriage sex life, and your spouse may very well appreciate you suggesting it. Adding a little variety to your bedroom can go a long way towards improving and increasing intimacy.

What is foreplay? For many people, the answer to this question is pretty hazy. Sure, they may have a rough idea that it has something to do with first, second and third base, but beyond that, they are fairly clueless. They know that foreplay is something that you do before having sex, but they are not really sure why. If you are one of these people, be warned, that is a pretty dangerous way of thinking, especially if you are married. Disregarding foreplay can lead to unrewarding sexual experiences for your spouse which may eventually lead to a lack of sexual experiences for you!